four different blue and white cakes

We like to make our girly party themes a little more boy-friendly, so this year we went with a dinosaur tea party birthday theme.

BUT, instead of the usual pink & gold dinosaur theme for girls, we used French blue and China white + chinoiserie (a.k.a. that pretty hand painted blue and white pattern with florals and birds and such) plus… dinosaurs, because hello gorgeous. Dinosaurs can be classy too.

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Blue and White Dinosaur Tea Party Inspo Pics

mini ceramic dino figurine with blue floral pattern and gold horns

Vallavica

white cake with detailed blue frosting

Pinterest

blue stegosaurus purse

Amazon

white and blue teacup with gold handle

Pinterest

table number card with light blue arch

Etsy

light blue and white tea party dress with pearl belt

Shein

light blue cake with white floral details

Pinterest

Sigh. I could dream in blues & whites all day.

Dinosaur Tea Party Invitation

elegant light blue invitation with a dinosaur fossil at top

Meet the Dinos

Blue and white dino figures were hard to come by, or they cost over $100…

So I made my own.

Meet our dino clan:

Mrs. Sumpkins

mini white triceratops figure with dark blue detailing

Rexy (Sexy Rexy by those closest)

mini light blue t rex figurine

Lady Trina

mini dark blue pteradactyl figurine with pearl necklace

Gerald

mini ankylosaurus figurine with dainty dots on his back and tail

Mr. Griswald (sometimes known for his grumpy nature)

mini dark blue triceratops figure with white detailing

Winnow

mini white t rex with light blue tummy and dark blue spine
side profile of white t rex

And all are watched over by Mama T, who was made by someone else’s hands, but is no less loved.

white and gold kate aspen triceratops planter

See if you can spot our little friends in the party photos.

Savory Dinosaur Party Food

Every party needs some salty to balance out the sweet. Check out these fun healthy dino foods. Your mom friends will appreciate you not sugaring up their kids. Or, at least offering some healthy dinosaur party food options to balance out the sugar rush.

food table covered with lace

Cucumber Dino Claws

Cute and simple. Cut two grooves out of an English cucumber and then slice.

dinosaur claw shaped cucumbers

Dino Tail Cucumber Sandwiches

Could it be a tea party without cucumber sandwiches? These dino tail ones are adorable and so refreshing! To make the cucumber ‘spikes’ that stick out of the sandwich cut a few slices of cucumber in quarters. Then lay the the cucumber triangles so they sticking out along the long edge of the triangle to look like a spiky dino tail.

Find the recipe I used for the filling (hint: it has fresh lemon zest in it) HERE.

triangular sandwiches with cucumber spines sticking out like dino tail

Meteorites in Molten Glaze

Meatballs, aka the quintessential party food. Give them the tongue-in-cheek name of meteorites for your dino party. Then glaze them in classic teriyaki, or you can leave them plain (less mess with kids), or drench them with your sauce of choice.

Tip: Keep warm in the crockpot.

blue and white bowl of meatballs with golden serving spoon

Mount St. Hummus

I love how this one turned out! We used nano tape (my party tape of choice because it’s so strong ans sticky) to securely stack 3 bowls together and then covered with homemade hummus. If hummus is not your thing, then guacamole, refried beans & cheese, or a cheeseball would also make a delicious edible volcano.

Notice the ‘Stegosaurus Spines’ in the photo above for dipping.

edible volcano made out of hummus and carrots

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Drinks

We got a bunch of sturdy glass teacups (we’ve never had one break) to make the kids feel fancy at their dinosaur tea party. We went with glass to avoid any chipping of porcelain. And if one did break, it wouldn’t be a big deal because they aren’t very expensive.

mini glass teacups

Or, if you want something more in the medium size, these glass espresso cups or these darling ceramic espresso cups would be perfect.

Ice Aged Water

The timeless drink. 😉

pitcher of ice water

Taste of the Deep

Make a gorgeous blue lemonade out of butterfly pea flower tea.

Butterfly pea flowers are one of the best sources of natural blue food dye, plus have a lot of health benefits, and they make for a fun science experiment for kids. The deep blue tea will turn purple when citrus is added to it! Make an iced tea or butterfly pea flower lemonade.

Tip: It has a bit of a grass smell when you’re steeping it, but the taste is mild/bland. Make into refreshing lemonade by sweetening with sugar ahead of time, then let the kids add some lemon to their teacup for some color-changing fun!

blue cup and purple cup

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Dinosaur Tea Party Desserts

Would it be a tea party without dainty sweets?

table with various desserts

Prehistoric Peanut Butter Cookies

My sister made these dairy-free peanut butter cookies with plant butter. I’m usually a butter fan, but these might be better with the plant butter. They are addicting. And adorable.

Just make sure to underbake them so they stay soft. Sooo yummy.

3 tiered tray of dino print cookies
close up of cookies

Mini Strawberry Volcanoes

These are so easy to make and ridiculously adorable. Have I used that word too much yet? I have a soft spot for mini themed foods apparently.

The ‘dirt’ is blended oreos. And the white tips are my favorite white chocolate (Ghirardehlli premium white chocolate bar) melted and drizzled/dipped. White chocolate won’t lose its shape after an hour like whip cream would. Yum!

upside down strawberries on a tray with white on their tips

Tea-Rex Tea Cakes

These silicone teacup cupcake liners make eating muffins and cupcakes so fancy. We did healthier carrot cake muffins with cream cheese frosting, but now I’m wishing we’d done our new favorite blueberry muffins instead.

Whatever muffin you decide on, they will look all dressed up and ready to party in these liners.

cupcakes in teacup liners
cupcakes in teacup liners

Royal Copenhagen Cake

My talented friend Heidi made our cake this year & we topped it with fresh flowers from the garden.

blue and white birthday cake with fresh blue flowers on top

Triceratops Eggs

Costco & Amazon have these delicious probiotic yogurt-covered strawberry snacks called Yoggies that my girls love. (And if we’re being honest, that I munch on too).

We served them in the cutest Kate Aspen triceratops dish, aka Mama T, which is unfortunately discontinued, but sometimes you can find it on Etsy. The delicate golden spoon is from Anthropology.

triceratops dish with snacks inside

Dig for Bones

Blend up graham crackers and let the kids dig for some ancient edible fossils.

Tip: If you can’t find yogurt covered pretzels, white chocolate covered pretzels work too.

bowl of graham cracker dust and white pretzels

FREE dinosaur food labels are in the subscriber library. 😊

Dinosaur Party Decorations

How do you make a tea party more boy-friendly? Tie in your dinosaur tea party theme by mixing a volcano playhouse with an elegant blue and white tea party place setting of course. Oh, and lots of active games. 😉

walkway with chalk dinosaur footprints
white teapot with blue floral detail and gold handle

(Before decoupage teapot makeover)

cream teapot with dated fruit pattern

Volcano playhouse! Made from kraft paper, nano tape, and 8 ft bamboo poles.

large paper volcano with cave enterance for kids to enter
blue and white table setting on floor table
blue and white table setting on floor table

Party like it’s 68 million years ago.

sign: party like it's 68 million years ago

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Dinosaur Party Games and Activities

Dino Coloring Page

It’s nice to have one or two activities for when kids first show up. Make it easy on yourself and go with a coloring page. I used this free dino coloring page.

table with coloring pages and markers on it

Dino Dig Bucket Decorating

We used watercolor dinosaur stickers ( you’ll need 1 pkg per 6 ish kids) and they could pick 2 dinosaurs and 3 other stickers to decorate their dino dig buckets. We used these gold metal pails from Walmart’s party/wedding section, just like we used in our mermaid & pirate party and I still love them because they are so affordable and classy.

golden bucket with watercolor dinosaur stickers

What’s Your Dinosaur Name?

Snag this free dino name printable by joining our email list, then going to the subscriber library. The password should come through within 24 hours. The printable is available in both black and white and the jungle version.

free what is your dinosaur name printable

*Storybook Dino Hunt*

This was our main dinosaur party activity and it was a huge hit. It was half storytime, half dinosaur scavenger hunt. Get all the playful details HERE, including what we used for our massive dino dig pit.

dinosaur picture books with clues

Candy Dinosaur Pinata

For our grand finale we had an inflatable dinosaur costume with candy taped on it for the kids to chase. Yep, you heard me. The kids got to chase down a dinosaur. Covered in treats. It was epic.

By the end, the kids were hugging the candy dinosaur and thanking her for the visit. It was hilarious. Find more tips about the candy dinosaur chase in the storybook dinosaur hunt post.

inflatable dinosaur costume with candy on it

Dinosaur Balloon Stomp

And finally, want to make kids happy? Give them balloons.

While we waited for parents to pick their kids up, we tied a balloon on each of the kids’ ankles. Then we turned on some music and let them try to stomp each other’s balloons. Gauranteed entertainment every time. I’ve played the balloon stomp game with adults and it’s a blast, no matter the age.

legs and feet popping colorful balloons

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Overall this was such a fun party.

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<3/Nicole